count that day lost

A meaningful day?

What is a meaningful day to me? 
as a matter of fact i can understand if this day was a meaningful day only at night. Than I’ll know if i managed to say something good to someone else. A day you see the good in people and tell them compliments will get them to see you in a good light as well and you will get a meaningful day. 

On the other hand, few weeks back, i heard an advice that helped me along the way: Make up your bed every day. that way if your having a good day you will finish the day in good vibes as well and if your having a bad day you will meet an organized bed that will give you comfort. And it really works! Coz you have the days when you are alone and the days you are not feeling well or angry or just out of power so much there’s nothing positive in it and all you have is the bed at the end. And that is great. It gives you the chance to start over in a more positive way thanking the things you have and making a shitty day end in a meaningful way.

Count that day lost. I wondered why Eliot choose that title for that beautiful song and i got the answer from Owl eyes…
“We learn best when we are punished for our mistake”. That means we loose a perfectly good day just because we didn’t say something nice to someone else. I don’t fully agree with that because i don’t think our happiness should be depending on other. We can have a meaningful day by achieving a goal we set ourselves.